The subject of whether or not cremation is an appropriate Jewish practice for the disposal of bodies has seldom come up for public discussion recently. Living in Israel, I have not had occasion to deal with it. Although some things have disturbed me about funerals in Israel, especially the stranger kabbalistic practices of some of the Jerusalem Hevra Kaddisha groups and the way women are discouraged from reciting kaddish and otherwise participating, I have simply accepted our burial customs as appropriate without giving them much thought.
I was therefore somewhat taken aback recently when I came upon an article called “The Burning Issue” that occupied an entire page in the Hebrew daily newspaper, Haaretz. The occasion for the article was the opening of a second crematorium in Israel. I had not even remembered that one existed. It described how that one had been operating without any competition for several years, but now another company had been formed as competition. In both cases, unlike the usual burial societies and cemeteries that are non-profit or governmental groups, these are private, commercial, money making operations not based on some ideology but on profit. The writer described the violent opposition to cremation that the first company had encountered, including an attempt by an ultra-Orthodox group to burn it down.  Indeed throughout the entire piece the writer used the term “ultra-Orthodox” whenever referring to those who disapproved of the practice of cremation, giving the impression that only ultra-Orthodox (haredi) Jewish groups had a problem with this practice. In other words, disapproval of cremation makes one automatically an ultra-Orthodox fanatic of some sort.  Since I am definitely one of those who feels strongly that cremation is not an appropriate practice within Judaism, I resent that implication. Certainly Orthodox leaders – modern and not so modern – also oppose it, nor is it accepted as normative within Conservative/Masorti circles. My feeling is that most Jews find cremation off-putting and unacceptable. But since the subject has come up, it is worth discussing traditional Jewish burial practice and what lies behind it.
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